What do you say, when you don't know what to say. When you're faced with a situation that you're not sure how you should respond to? Hw do you want to respond? Take time to figure it out. Also take time to figure out an answer what you believe. What are your family values? What are your values personally? Because being able to know where you personally stand helps you when you half to answer the tough or uncomfortable questions. Plus it's the right thing to do and it models the way for others.