Complement your spouse, it's not just saying nice words to them or compliments, but do you complement your spouse when you're with them? Do you bring out the best in them? Do you help them shine brighter than they were without you beside them? Make sure that you build up and encourage your mate and that you don't have their light shine less bright with you beside them. It's not just words but also your actions that encourage and build up your spouse. After all, it's the right thing to do and it models the way for others.