Have regular date nights with your spouse. It's one of the best things you can do to keep your marriage alive and healthy, especially after children come into your home. It gives you time to enjoy each other and remember why you got married in the first place. Next time you are in a restaurant look around, you can usually spot the couples that stopped investing time, energy and effort into their marriage. It's the couples that are just eating and not talking. They stopped investing, stopped talking, and stopped dating somewhere along the way and just grew apart. Work hard to not end up like that by doing what you need to do now and invest time by dating your spouse regularly. It's good for both of you and for your children to see that and it's the right thing to do and it models the way for others.