Are you driven by fear or driven by pride? About 50% of people are driven by fear and 50% are driven by pride. Look at your life and decide what you are driven by, then look at you spouse or significant other, or maybe your parents...opposites attract so odds are they may be different. Have a discussion with your spouse or a friend on what you are driven by and incorporate your fear/pride driver into your daily talks with God (prayers) and each other. Being aware of how you are driven and reading what God's word says about fear and pride will help you be aware of and give you options next time you see fear or pride issues pop up in your life.