Do you compliment your spouse or significant other? And do they compliment you? What I am referring to here, is do you say kind words to one another and build each other up? What I have learned through the years is your words have meaning and impact. Every word you say can have a positive or negative impact. Choose your words wisely to bring life and energy, versus sucking the life out of them. After all, it's the right thing to do and it models the way for others.