Watch The words you say and use. Words have meaning and for example when you use words that don't build up people, but tear people down you can be viewed as someone that people want to stay away from. Also, watch the words you use about yourself, specifically in a job interview or conversation. It could be the single reason you don't move forward. Pay attention, pause and reflect what you want to say, and then speak. After all it's the right thing to do and it models the way for others.