You can't be fully confident until you understand who you are and who you are not. Learn to laugh at yourself, and sometimes the best way to laugh at yourself is by being silly or goofy. Maybe its by just getting on the dance floor, like I did tonight at my daughter's father and daughter dance at her school. We had lots of laughs tonight and just had a great time. Take time for the things that really matter because these things that will become "the best of times" memories that you created and you were able to laugh at yourself. It will be memories like these that you will look back on and recall with a big smile on your face and the laughter will find its way out from within you. After all, learning to laugh at yourself is the right thing to do and it models the way for others.