Watch having expectations. When you have expectations you have an idea of how things should be and when it doesn't turn out that way, you can be upset. Watch your expectations because just because someone does something a different way than how you do it, doesn't mean it's wrong it's just different. When you set expectations you can be let down versus allowing others to be themselves. Having expectations is really about you trying to control the situation, whether you fully understand that or not. Understand you can't be in control of everything, so give up control and let life just happen. After all it's the right thing to do and it models the way for others.