Do you know what your bent is? Its how God designed you to be based on the gifts and skill sets you bring. When you're following your bent or God's design of your talents, you bring and give energy to those around you versus when you're not, you can drain the energy of those around you. So make sure that you understand what your bent is and move towards it, if you're not there now. After all, it's the right thing to do and it models the way for others.