Be willing to talk, even when you don't feel like it. Being willing to talk through any situation is important instead of putting it on the back burner and not talking now or today. All that does is postpone a conversation that should've happened sooner. And by postponing the conversation, certain feelings arise that maybe were not necessary. Now you might say, if the conversation happened now then you would say things that you might regret, and depending on how you are wired, that may be true. But being able to get the conversation out on the table today is a sign of maturity and knowledge. Make sure you are willing to talk and if you don't think you should talk now, then make sure it's today. After all being willing to talk is the right thing to do and your ability and understanding the importance of communicating now models the way for others.